Words can also be terrible if we fail to
understand them. For instance, it is a taboo to break words because they are
like eggs, you cannot put them back together. You don’t also throw them at
others because they can harden on contact with the hearts or men and become
missiles thrown back at you. The greatest thing about words is that they are
poor servants sometimes, they can tell stories which we do not intend. They
reveal the secrets of our hearts in such remote and dark places which even God
may not have been to. I am more fascinated at how words tell stories about our
lives and our society. For instance, a poor man gets killed, a rich man or
person of substance is murdered, a politician or ruler is assassinated.
What is the difference in real terms? Someone
just got erased and has ceased to perform the aging progression. The right word
to use then depends on the value placed on the life by society. Imagine what
you would think about meat if goats are murdered not slaughtered. I will not
eat the meat of murdered animals. Euphemisms help man to make light words that
would otherwise evoke serious emotions. Thus, a person who has “kicked the
bucket” or “passed away” has experienced perhaps less death than one who has
died. In fact, “going to sleep with the Lord” is a better way of breaking the
emotions than simply talking about dying. Armed robbers don’t say they will
kill you; they tell you that they will “waste you”. Words can be deceptive.
Sometimes we deliberately make them so to cover up our pain. In politics today,
when government says “we are going to leave no stone unturned...” It means that
they are not going to do anything about a situation. But we believe that
something is going to be done even though no such thing has been said. What has
stones got to do with it anyway? “Government will bring offenders to book”
means that the offenders are above the law or that government is the offender.
If there is an offender and he or she is known, the name of such offender ought
to be mentioned. The term is a mask, but one which allows government to achieve
its plans. Talk tough, but take no action. Once a name is mentioned, then a
commitment to justice becomes inevitable. There are many other words and
expressions. The police “bares its fangs”. The police are not a dog, except
otherwise the police dog is the real police. But fangs are more associated with
snakes. That is the point. You evoke fright and in an ironical way show that
the police are a green snake under the green grass.
What are the differences between kpekere and plantain chip; groundnut and peanuts; guguru and popcorn? It
depends on how you feel, the image you want to cut for yourself and who you are
talking to. Words are notoriously deceptive. All over the world, the
recognition of the potency of words is the beginning of political wisdom. You
do not say that something said by a person of higher status is a lie. Big men
don’t tell lies. At worst, it is untrue or full of contradictions. People are
diplomatic not dishonest, they compromise not capitulate; negotiate not sell
out – especially when this is in the interest of peace. Compromise is a virtue
but collaboration is a vice. But really who says? You can deceive a person or
trick him as long as you do not use those words. It is better to say that you
persuaded him or her. If you implore, you are not considered weak but to beg is
a disgrace. Only a common person steals, if he employs some force, he is an
armed robber. But a big man commits fraud, misappropriates funds or misapplies
it. There is some class when you do this. That is not all; there is a
difference between insurgency, rebellion, rioting, terrorism, struggle
depending on who is telling the story and from which angle. One man’s terrorist
is another woman’s freedom fighter. A suicide bomber on CNN is a martyr on
Aljazeera. Wonderful world of words! In the Niger Delta, Ijaw youths have grown
from armed bandits to rebels and are now referred to as terrorists; quite some
promotion within a short while, or a demotion, depending on whom is saying
what. But they are heroes to those who share their beliefs. An “axis of evil”
can easily be seen as an “orbit of righteousness” depending on whether you are
George Bush or Osama Bin Laden. It is not so bad if you are gay – it sounds
attractive but being homosexual evokes negative emotions. Homosexuals and
Lesbians want to marry but many argue that marriage is a contract between a man
and a woman. If we change the word, will this allow them participate?
Imagine human eggs being harvested, or
people talking of stem cells. Are we trees? Maybe people are just too scared to
feel like trees. Terms like alternative lifestyles shield unpleasant things
from the open. In Africa, traditional people disappear but they are zapped or
are beamed in science fiction. You transform into different shapes if you had
juju or are a powerful witch; but in a world of scientific gadgets one will
speak of morphing. Are witches mutants? Can men get pregnant? Finally, why do
animals copulate and humans have sex? Even though the former show more
discretion in the business. Words are clay; we simply mould them into
subjective shapes.
Sometimes, languages have no words for
normal occurrences in society because they are so unpleasant that no one wants
to talk about them. Those things we would like to keep in the closet. What is
the word for rape in your language? If there is no word, perhaps there is an
expression. You may also want to find out what the term for incest is. Some men
don’t commit adultery and boys are never loose and men are generally never
prostitutes, such terms would have no reference to men but women only. What we
don’t name technically does not exist.
Biography
Biography
Professor
Francis Egbokhare teaches phonetics and phonology at the University of Ibadan.
He has held important administrative positions in the University. He was head
of Linguistics and African Languages Department and Director of The Distance
Learning Centre.
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